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Keeper of Memories
In the wake of my aunt's recent death, I am reminded of the importance of stories.
Oct 16, 20233 min read


My Promise
I made a promise to Mike on his deathbed.
Oct 12, 20235 min read


Unspent Love
The author Jamie Anderson says grief is unspent love. What on earth am I to do with that?
Oct 9, 20234 min read


A Blessed Week
This week was earmarked for emotional turmoil.
Oct 5, 20234 min read


Living With My Losses
Sometimes I forget just how traumatized I have been for all the losses I have experienced in the last 5 years.
Sep 28, 20233 min read


Carrying on a Pizza Legacy
Mike left us a pizza legacy.
Sep 25, 20236 min read


Letting Go
Recently a friend asked me, not unkindly, whether I thought I could ever let go of Mike.
Sep 18, 20233 min read


My Rings
One thing I wondered after Mike passed: What do I do with my rings?
Sep 14, 20235 min read


The Second Year
I was told that the second year would be worse than the first year. Really?
Sep 11, 20234 min read


The Empath and Fixer
My life is challenging enough without me being me.
Sep 7, 20233 min read


To Tell or Not to Tell
To tell or not to tell?
Sep 4, 20235 min read


The Trouble with Marrying Mr. Fix-It
As it turns out, I am a little bit of a Mrs. Fix-It. Grudgingly and by circumstance.
Aug 31, 20235 min read


Did I Just Make You Feel Weird?
Sometimes I make things awkward.
Aug 24, 20232 min read

My Best Days
Are my best days really behind me now?
Aug 21, 20233 min read


A Trip to the Big Apple
Mike always wanted to take his girls to New York City.
Aug 17, 20233 min read


He Knew
My husband always knew he would die young.
Aug 14, 20235 min read


When Sadness Calls
The other day, I was in a funk.
Aug 10, 20234 min read


What the Pandemic Taught Us
Mike and I felt pretty smug about ourselves during the pandemic.
Aug 7, 20233 min read

Angry Much?
Has anger been a part of my grief journey? How shall I put this? YES!
Aug 3, 20234 min read


Losing (and Finding) My Confidence
I lost more than my spouse when he died
Jul 31, 20233 min read
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